Chastity Training is a fine art in the realm of Dominance and submission. The ability to control a man's primal urges for frequent sexual release poses as one of the more challenging disciplines of the Mistress and slave dynamic. A central focal point of his daily rhythm and distraction, the very thought of handing the keys of his virile vehicle over to a Mistress can be downright terrifying. The notion that a Woman should dictate the timing of his orgasms as well as when he may even have skin contact with his main member is not for the slave who merely wishes to dabble and dally. For most men, their modus operanti is the lifelong reliance upon self-gratification that often takes on the form of compulsive, less-than-satisfying, linear starts to finishes.
Read moreA Tribute to My Fellow Kinky Folk
After more than half a decade of training slaves from many corners of the globe, My journey into Mistressdom would not have been possible without the bold, passionate, and talented women I have met along the way. Each of the following Dominatrices/BDSM educators have contributed to My knowledge of BDSM with their guidance, friendship, and compassion. Some of them have been living this lifestyle for decades, devoting their life to their craft and educating others on the art of kink. Some have even been kind enough to invite Me into their immaculately appointed playspaces, allowing Me to use their facilities and inspiring Me to design My own one day. If you ever find yourself in any one of their territories, do reach out to them for training, discipline, and education.
-CALIFORNIA
San Diego: Mistress Porcelain Midnight
Los Angeles: Mistress Nicolette, Mistress Lucy Khan, Ms. Kaila Yi, Mistress An Li, Mistress Damiana Chi, Mistress Jezebel Chi, Justine Cross, Mistress Kiko,
San Francisco: Mistress Morgana, Domina Yuki, Domina Colette, Mistress Lillian, Mistress Ophelia Margaux, Mistress Vivienne Vai, Mistress Eva Sterling, Dominatrix Carmen
-NEW HAMPSHIRE
-NEW YORK
Mistress Lucy Sweetkill and Mistress Dia Dynasty of La Maison du Rouge, Mistress Ariana, MarcusLikesIt, Yin Q , Mistress Paige, Troy Orleans, Mistress Blunt
-WASHINGTON DC
-CANADA
Toronto: Lady Azelle
-LONDON, UK
-PARIS, FRANCE
-HONG KONG
-SINGAPORE
-MANILA, PHILIPPINES
My Love of Sissies
Sissy, sissy-maid, sissy-slut, sissy-bitch, cross dresser, transvestite, androgyne, eunuch--I use these terms to describe a certain brand of sub who I love to feminize and emasculate. As with all forms of kink, the feminization of the male sub and its multi-layered pleasures is highly psychological. It challenges and reshapes our understanding of traditional masculinity, femininity, misogyny and sexism.
Read moreWhy you submit and how to be an empowered sub
"Bottoms are beautiful, bottoms are powerful, bottoms are alchemist who magically transform suffering into sex, humiliation into desire, screams of pain into moans of pleasure." Dossie Easton & Janet W. Hardy. The New Bottoming Book
Submission is a gift whereby the submissive gives his trust, his body, his mind, his services on whatever form it takes, to the Dominant. The sub is vulnerable and raw, even if for a temporary period, in front of the Mistress by revealing his fantasies and desires which are windows to his complex nature, his soul. BDSM enables us to explore the redistribution of power and control, and the reality of this dynamic between two or more persons is that power is exchanged and equally shared by all involved--sub and Mistress. Therefore, the submissive is also a powerful player, a self-actualized individual who knows and understands his sexual preferences and requires his Dominant half to fulfill his needs for those are just as strong and valid as those of the Mistress. This essay will seek to explain not how one submits, but WHY one submits, and how to be an empowered submissive.
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