This special post is for those who have contemplated reaching out to Me for the first time and may not quite know how to properly go about it. your introduction letter to Me should be thoughtful, eloquent, sincere, and respectful. This means you will address Me properly at the beginning of the email, you will have reviewed My website beforehand to educate yourself on My rules, My philosophies, and My tribute, and you will have proofread your email for any grammatical errors prior to sending it. your introductory emails should contain 3 parts: your reasons for contacting Me, your background and experience level as a slave, and your dates of availability for a session as well as your phone number. If you have been acting the part of a fully functional adult who is responsible, reasonably educated, and gainfully employed, then all of this information should have been obvious to you. I am fortunate enough to be served by outstanding submissives from around the world. I cannot count how many times I have been utterly blown away by the level of service, devotion, and thoughtfulness with which they demonstrate their loyalty and submission to Me. you know who you are. If you have served Me before and I still grant you My time even outside of a session, it means you have earned your place at My feet. Life is precious and time is limited, therefore My time is valuable and only to be given to those who are worthy of Me.
Read moreForced-Bi: Homosexuality or Service?
A perfectly heterosexual male slave with a forced-bi fetish fantasizes about servicing other men -- orally or anally -- for the pleasure and amusement of his Mistress. In My personal life, a forced-bi slave is one of My favorite types of men to play with. They are eager to please, eager to perform, eager to receive, and, of course, eager to give all for the sake of My satisfaction. You may be wondering as to why a man would find any source of pleasure from this activity. The reasons are complex yet easy, universal yet individualized, and all rooted in the desire to serve. There are three main explanations for the psychology of the forced-bi male slave.
Read moreHow We are Naturally Wired for Dominance and submission
Dominance and submission are not unique to BDSM, it is deeply wired in our psychology as a species. Hierarchy is a natural human phenomenon. We are status-oriented, competitive, and we seek to feel important than and superior to others. No matter how many times we uphold the myth of "freedom and equality", we live in a world of social stratification, rich and poor, ruler and ruled whereby the majority submit to the will of the minority. Hierarchical structures exist in almost every organization -- military, government, corporations, religion, sports teams, families, etc. This alpha-omega model is necessary for us to live cooperatively (Thomas Hobbes asserted that it helps to promote internal order within communities), to make decisions so that it can be carried out efficiently, to ensure the survival of the group for the next generation. This primordial ranking behavior has defined us since the dawn of our race. The ubiquity of dominance and submission in our world is often seen in the form of competition. Charles Darwin noted that we are competitive over food, and, more importantly, over sex. One of the purposes of establishing hierarchy is so that those who land at the top of the pecking order will gain the sexual favors of the opposite sex, typically between males for access to females. Coming out ahead is a display of one's genetic endowments, AKA ideal sperm donor. Yesterday's muscles and hunting skills are replaced by today's cars and bank accounts. People need to know where they stand and who has the power, who is the best, who has the most resources. In other words, who is superior and who is inferior, who gets to mate (and live), and whose genes must die with the generation.
Read moreThe Eastern Question: Why do subs Love Asian Dommes?
An Asian Dominatrix is a seductive mixture of beauty and mystery for Caucasian men, who make up 90% of My submissives. An Asian Domme is a fetish within a fetish. There are men who wish to submit to Women...and then there are men who specifically wish to submit to Asian Women. Why?
Men with an "Asian fetish" consider Asian Women to be extremely attractive--physically and mentally. Even before I was a full-fledged FemDomme, I was showered with attention from Western men who absolutely adored My petite physique, My soft black hair, My silky-smooth skin, My superior intellect and My refined mannerisms as result of My Chinese upbringing.
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