Chastity Training is a fine art in the realm of Dominance and submission. The ability to control a man's primal urges for frequent sexual release poses as one of the more challenging disciplines of the Mistress and slave dynamic. A central focal point of his daily rhythm and distraction, the very thought of handing the keys of his virile vehicle over to a Mistress can be downright terrifying. The notion that a Woman should dictate the timing of his orgasms as well as when he may even have skin contact with his main member is not for the slave who merely wishes to dabble and dally. For most men, their modus operanti is the lifelong reliance upon self-gratification that often takes on the form of compulsive, less-than-satisfying, linear starts to finishes.
Read moreA Tribute to My Fellow Kinky Folk
After more than half a decade of training slaves from many corners of the globe, My journey into Mistressdom would not have been possible without the bold, passionate, and talented women I have met along the way. Each of the following Dominatrices/BDSM educators have contributed to My knowledge of BDSM with their guidance, friendship, and compassion. Some of them have been living this lifestyle for decades, devoting their life to their craft and educating others on the art of kink. Some have even been kind enough to invite Me into their immaculately appointed playspaces, allowing Me to use their facilities and inspiring Me to design My own one day. If you ever find yourself in any one of their territories, do reach out to them for training, discipline, and education.
-CALIFORNIA
San Diego: Mistress Porcelain Midnight
Los Angeles: Mistress Nicolette, Mistress Lucy Khan, Ms. Kaila Yi, Mistress An Li, Mistress Damiana Chi, Mistress Jezebel Chi, Justine Cross, Mistress Kiko,
San Francisco: Mistress Morgana, Domina Yuki, Domina Colette, Mistress Lillian, Mistress Ophelia Margaux, Mistress Vivienne Vai, Mistress Eva Sterling, Dominatrix Carmen
-NEW HAMPSHIRE
-NEW YORK
Mistress Lucy Sweetkill and Mistress Dia Dynasty of La Maison du Rouge, Mistress Ariana, MarcusLikesIt, Yin Q , Mistress Paige, Troy Orleans, Mistress Blunt
-WASHINGTON DC
-CANADA
Toronto: Lady Azelle
-LONDON, UK
-PARIS, FRANCE
-HONG KONG
-SINGAPORE
-MANILA, PHILIPPINES
The Sadism Inside Me: The Case for Cruelty
Being a disciplinarian, for Me, has always been one of the more fascinating means by which to correct or punish a slave's behavior. As a Mistress I employ various forms of physical and psychological training to re-educate and re-condition My subjects, however it is when a masochist kneels before Me that I feel a raw and nearly uninhibited sense of excitement as a human being. Even with the understanding that any such training is always consensual, the very act of inflicting pain on My slave's body and watching him writhe in agony gives Me a strangely primal sense of satisfaction. In fact, the more a slave cries out upon impact from My instrument of torture, the more I want to continue My path of darkness just so I can hear him scream and beg for mercy. The only thing that tempers My instinct to destroy the individual in front of me is My compassion in understanding his need to feel My control. It is in these moments of sadism that My thinking, reasoning self diminishes, and a beast--an animal--within Me emerges, perhaps telling Me a story about My innate human nature that is older than civilization.
Read moreFarewell Lauren Bacall, My Kind of Woman
I must take My leather gloves off and bid farewell to one of My favorite actresses of all time -- the unbelievably sexy, one-of-a-kind Lauren Bacall who passed away this last month. Ever since I saw her in To Have and Have Not, I was swept away by her irresistible femininity, her take-no-prisoner approach to seduction, and her unapologetic straightforwardness. Her inimitable style embodied class, yet hints at a masculine undertone to complement her tough broad demeanor. Bold, elegant, and with a stunning face that melts and kills, she was a Dominatrix in My book. They just don't make actresses like her anymore. Her no-BS and in-your-face attitude, mixed with her poisonous charm belong to a bygone era. She possessed both sophistication as well as a rawness about her that made her human and vulnerable.
She was My kind of Woman. Rest in peace.
Below is My favorite Lauren Bacall scene, from her movie with Humphrey Bogart To Have and Have Not.
It brilliantly illustrates the power that Women have over men.