Being a disciplinarian, for Me, has always been one of the more fascinating means by which to correct or punish a slave's behavior. As a Mistress I employ various forms of physical and psychological training to re-educate and re-condition My subjects, however it is when a masochist kneels before Me that I feel a raw and nearly uninhibited sense of excitement as a human being. Even with the understanding that any such training is always consensual, the very act of inflicting pain on My slave's body and watching him writhe in agony gives Me a strangely primal sense of satisfaction. In fact, the more a slave cries out upon impact from My instrument of torture, the more I want to continue My path of darkness just so I can hear him scream and beg for mercy. The only thing that tempers My instinct to destroy the individual in front of me is My compassion in understanding his need to feel My control. It is in these moments of sadism that My thinking, reasoning self diminishes, and a beast--an animal--within Me emerges, perhaps telling Me a story about My innate human nature that is older than civilization.
Read moreFarewell Lauren Bacall, My Kind of Woman
I must take My leather gloves off and bid farewell to one of My favorite actresses of all time -- the unbelievably sexy, one-of-a-kind Lauren Bacall who passed away this last month. Ever since I saw her in To Have and Have Not, I was swept away by her irresistible femininity, her take-no-prisoner approach to seduction, and her unapologetic straightforwardness. Her inimitable style embodied class, yet hints at a masculine undertone to complement her tough broad demeanor. Bold, elegant, and with a stunning face that melts and kills, she was a Dominatrix in My book. They just don't make actresses like her anymore. Her no-BS and in-your-face attitude, mixed with her poisonous charm belong to a bygone era. She possessed both sophistication as well as a rawness about her that made her human and vulnerable.
She was My kind of Woman. Rest in peace.
Below is My favorite Lauren Bacall scene, from her movie with Humphrey Bogart To Have and Have Not.
It brilliantly illustrates the power that Women have over men.
The Mind of the Cuckold Explained: History, Culture, Psychology
"A man shall leave his father and his mother and hold fast to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh...What therefore God has joined together, let not man separate". (Matthew 19:3-8)
...unless the man throws away his basket of stones and encourages his wife to commit adultery.
Have you ever fantasized about seeing your wife or girlfriend with another man? Do the thoughts of her cheating on you, having fantastic sex with other men, and coming home to tell you about it arouse you? Do you want to understand why you feel this way?
Read moreThe Makings of a Mistress
What sugars and spices go into the Dominatrix Dish? What makes a Woman a Dominatrix? What are the essential components of a Mistress? *I will use the word "Dominatrix" and "Mistress" interchangeably.
The short and simple answer is that a Dominatrix is whatever you fantasize her to be. Sexy, cruel, demanding, leather-clad, insert adjective.
The dictionary answer--a Woman who plays the dominant role in a sado-masochistic sexual relationship or encounter (notice the use of the words "plays...the role").
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